Feel free to call it out. I certainly did not mean to offend anyone. I am a gay guy who understand these nuances well.
That being said, this is a fairy tale where the authors are setting up a world that this girl could be completely excluded. They also set up a world where interracial couples are going to the prom together. And they never recognize that there is a disparity or that there should be nuance in their story telling. That's an issue. And if you haven't seen the show, you may not recognize how glaring of an issue this was.