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| I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Last Edit: dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| Posted by: dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: Beanie Feldstein is engaged! - bwaynut 12:30 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| I guess it’s non-news now when someone is gay or lesbian. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: FortPeck 01:55 am EDT 06/25/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| FWIW she has been out for quite a while. She gave an interview to Teen Vogue in October 2019 about falling in love with a woman. And a quick search yields an interview with People in May 2019 about being in a relationship with a woman. https://people.com/movies/beanie-feldstein-says-sexuality-not-her-defining-feature/ |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: Unhookthestars 09:49 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: den 07:04 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| Why would there have been any reason for you — or anyone — to know this? | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: ms721 07:52 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - den 07:04 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| you have a choice as to how to read dramedy's post, as i have to how to read yours. a snarky sarcastic tone or a genuinely curious one. even though i often suspect that people on this board are often being snarky, i'm too tired these days to take offense, so i assume it's a just a matter of "gee, i didn't know that, isn't it interesting," instead of "wow, it's a BIG deal that i didn't know that." remember, you can infer what you think, but you don't really know what someone is implying in text. the choice is yours. as is your choice of how to respond. |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: den 03:06 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - ms721 07:52 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| My question was genuine; any snark was unintentional. I don’t understand why it should be necessary for anyone to know the sexual orientation of any public figure or anyone in a professional setting unless said figure or professional announces it and feels, for whatever reason, the public has a right to know or needs to know this information about them. Obviously, by announcing her engagement, Beanie revealed her sexual orientation. Good for her. Prior to this, it wasn’t common knowledge, and there was no reason it should have been, in my opinion. That was my point. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: KingSpeed 05:30 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - den 03:06 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
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| I disagree that there is no reason for her sexual orientation to be common knowledge. The key to obtaining gay rights is everyone coming out. We need everyone to know who we are so that they know who they are discriminating against. It's also very important for gay children that we come out so they know they are not alone and not doomed to a terrible life. Remember "it gets better"? I think it is irresponsible for any gay person to not be fully out of the closet. This was Harvey Milk's opinion and I agree whole heartedly. We cannot afford for anyone to "protect their privacy." | |
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| I couldn't agree more (as usual) | |
| Posted by: reed23 06:39 am EDT 06/25/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - KingSpeed 05:30 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
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| I couldn't agree more. I think it's ominous that there are still people who support the hiding of minority sexuality (gay, bi, Alphabet City). Those who hide or live behind fictitious sexual identities may do it for their "comfort," for presumed professional security, and any number of reasons, all of which are based on the internalized gay-shaming of the homophobic. The American public is far, far ahead of Hollywood's denizens and are trapped in the gay-loathing of yesteryear. I'm very happy to see that both Beanie Feldstein and Jane Lynch are completely out and open and public in a big way. Whether it's their intention or a by-product, their openness contributes to the demolition of gay-shaming in the industry, and in the country at large – as does the openness of any public figure. (This is singularly important as of yesterday, when the legal, Constitutional right to anything but missionary-position heterosexual activity is now very much in question.) |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: Chromolume 12:06 am EDT 06/25/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - KingSpeed 05:30 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
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| No, I just can't agree with you at all. And I say this as a gay man who took the step of coming out in high school, something I don't regret at all for myself. Yes, it's a wonderful and important thing for the community and our rights when someone feels comfortable enough to come out. But no, people should not be mandated to do so. HUMANITY has to come first. We can encourage people to stand up for their identities, but first we must be humane and considerate of everyone's personal needs. What you're saying seems just short of taking the step to outing others, which is a very destructive thing. People should come out only when they are ready. If that happens. |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: den 08:02 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - KingSpeed 05:30 pm EDT 06/24/22 | |
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| I understand and respect your point, KingSpeed, but sex and sexuality are private matters, and the decision to make them public is a very personal one. I wouldn’t criticize anyone for discretion although I agree that openness contributes to the common good. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: dramedy 07:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - den 07:04 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| I read advocate and out mags and others. And maybe she was profiled in one of those already but I forgot. Why is it important? Race Minorities find it extremely important for representation in any industry. Why would sexual orientation be any different? I’m not for outing someone that’s in the closet (kevin spacey for example hid it for decades), but clearly beanie is not. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: BroadwayTonyJ 10:11 am EDT 06/24/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 07:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| I don't recall her ever saying in an interview that she was not heterosexual. I do remember Beanie and Ben Platt talking about their friendship and going to their high school prom together. I suspect that she was never closeted. She just didn't go around shouting it to the world. At some point, perhaps after seeing Booksmart, I must have checked the Wikipedia article that said she identified as queer, a term I (personally) don't feel comfortable in using, given that it had such a disparaging connotation when I was growing up. I agree that it's not important. |
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| re: So was Danny Thomas! | |
| Posted by: schlepper 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| re: So was Danny Thomas! | |
| Posted by: Chromolume 08:30 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: So was Danny Thomas! - schlepper 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| "Ooh - I LOVE him!" (another Rue McClanahan reference - a running joke from Maude.) | |
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| Lebanese, Blanche. nmi | |
| Posted by: Ncassidine 05:06 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: So was Danny Thomas! - schlepper 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| re: Lebanese, Blanche. nmi | |
| Posted by: Delvino 06:30 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: Lebanese, Blanche. nmi - Ncassidine 05:06 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| Theatrically speaking; Paul Zindel got a cheap joke out of “two Lebanons” in his oft-produced (community theater) And Miss Reardon Drinks a Little. |
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| LOL (nm) | |
| Posted by: MockingbirdGirl 04:42 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: So was Danny Thomas! - schlepper 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| And you wouldn't know she was starring on Broadway | |
| Posted by: richmurphy 03:54 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| Interestingly, not one mention of "Funny Girl" in the article, while some of her other credits are referenced. | |
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| re: And you wouldn't know she was starring on Broadway | |
| Last Edit: Delvino 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| Posted by: Delvino 04:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: And you wouldn't know she was starring on Broadway - richmurphy 03:54 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| I noticed that odd omission. Streisand famously crossed off her remaining days in the show in the second half of her second year. This new Fanny may be doing the same thing, three months into her six month run. |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: Ncassidine 01:00 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| Not that it's anyone's business, but we have no idea how she identifies. There are lots of identities. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Last Edit: theaterislife 02:08 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| Posted by: theaterislife 02:06 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - Ncassidine 01:00 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| In fairness to the original poster, the story does say that Beanie herself identified her partner as a woman at a SXSW panel. So it may not be "anyone's business" except she announced it at one of the world's most public events. I don't know if Beanie calls herself a "lesbian" but it does seems she identifies as a woman and said she is in a relationship with another woman... I think it's great and we need not jump all over the original poster. It's always good for the community to be visible and continue to show that you can be openly queer/lesbian/LGBTQ+ and headline in a Broadway show. It wasn't that long ago that it was very rare so we shouldn't take it for granted. |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: larry13 03:47 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - theaterislife 02:06 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| For what it's worth, Wikipedia, for one, says that "Feldstein identifies as queer." | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: Delvino 01:13 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - Ncassidine 01:00 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| She’s gonna be a Sadie! That’s the board specific spin! | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: dramedy 01:07 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - Ncassidine 01:00 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| I wasn’t going to list the entire alphabet that lgbt used to represent. I think the picture of the proposal makes my statement fairly accurate. | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: JAllenC3 01:42 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 01:07 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| No, the picture does not make your statement "fairly accurate." All the picture and story state are she's engaged to the person she's engaged to. You're judging based on your own assumption and when corrected you doubled down on it in a way to erase a large swath of the spectrum. | |
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| So I’ll rephrase “I didn’t know she wasn’t straight” | |
| Posted by: dramedy 01:57 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - JAllenC3 01:42 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| Is that better? Sadly, this post got all the comments and my post about strang loop-an actual theater question—is ignored. | |
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| Theatre related: | |
| Posted by: keywslt 02:50 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: So I’ll rephrase “I didn’t know she wasn’t straight” - dramedy 01:57 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| SHE'S (or They're) the next Bride! Mazel! | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: BroadwayTonyJ 12:49 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| She went to her high school prom with Ben Platt. | |
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| Ok that took me a minute | |
| Last Edit: dramedy 01:10 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| Posted by: dramedy 01:09 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - BroadwayTonyJ 12:49 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| To realize not only her status but his as well in at least the last year. I’ve lost touch with the girl I took to the prom. She’s probably a grandmother by now! | |
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| re: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. | |
| Posted by: TGWW 12:46 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
| In reply to: I didn’t know that she is a lesbian. - dramedy 12:37 pm EDT 06/23/22 | |
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| You didn't know? She didn't call you? | |
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